MyPetESA guidance
Backup Care for Your Emotional Support Animal: How to Write a Clear Care Handoff
Create a useful ESA care handoff for a trusted friend or sitter: routines, contacts, access, veterinary instructions and boundaries around private information.
Updated October 28, 2026
A trusted friend may know your animal’s name without knowing how to care for them overnight. If work, illness or an unexpected trip changes your plans, a clear handoff helps that person follow the routine you actually use. For someone who relies on an emotional support animal, arranging backup care also means thinking ahead about personal support while the animal is elsewhere.
Choose a person who can do the job
Ask directly whether the caregiver is comfortable with the species, size, handling needs and schedule. Discuss stairs, transport, other animals and the time commitment. Agreement to make one afternoon visit is not agreement to provide several nights of care. Name an alternative person and explain when the first caregiver should contact them.
Write a one-page routine, not a life story
List the usual feeding times, food location, walking or litter routine and where the animal rests. Describe everyday cues in plain language: which door to use, how the harness fits and where cleanup supplies are kept. Separate essential instructions from preferences so the person can prioritize. Avoid assuming a new caregiver knows your shorthand.
Keep veterinary decisions with the veterinarian
Provide the regular veterinary clinic’s contact information and your preferred emergency clinic. Use the veterinarian’s current written medication instructions rather than rewriting doses from memory. Ask the clinic what authorization it needs if someone else brings the animal in. Discuss how the caregiver will reach you and what to do if you cannot answer. A care sheet does not replace veterinary advice or formal authorization requirements.
Give access carefully and test it
Check that the caregiver can enter the building and find the carrier, leash, food and records. Share necessary access details privately with the named person, rather than posting door codes on a public profile or group message. Decide how keys will be returned and how access will end after the arrangement. A quick practice visit can reveal missing instructions before you leave.
Use updates that answer practical questions
Agree on a reasonable check-in schedule and the information you want: whether the animal ate, whether the normal routine happened and whether the caregiver noticed a change. Ask for a call when something concerns them instead of relying only on photos. Write down who is responsible for arranging additional supplies or collecting the animal if plans change.
Protect your own privacy and support needs
The caregiver usually needs animal-care information, not your assessment responses or an explanation of your diagnosis. Share personal information only when needed and with appropriate boundaries. If separation from the animal will be difficult, discuss a personal support plan with your treating professional or trusted support network. Do not assume the sitter can also take responsibility for your mental health care.
A simple handoff structure
Use these headings: animal identification; dates of care; primary and backup contacts; daily routine; handling notes; veterinarian’s written instructions; emergency contact process; supplies and access; and return arrangements. Add a last-updated date. Ask the caregiver to identify anything unclear before accepting the final version.
Sources and further reading
For official planning resources, see Michigan’s pet emergency checklist and the FDA’s preparation guidance. These resources support advance preparation; this article’s handoff structure is a practical organizational suggestion. Also read our ESA evacuation checklist. Photo: Simon / Unsplash, used under the Unsplash License. Illustrative photo; the animal’s ESA status is not asserted.
Helpful answers
Frequently asked questions
Does the caregiver need my entire ESA file?
No. Start with the information required to care for the animal. Keep clinical documents separate and consider any specific document request individually.
Can I use the same sheet for two animals?
Use separate routines where their food, handling or veterinary instructions differ. Make identification clear so instructions cannot be mixed up.
Should the sitter change medication if the animal seems stressed?
No improvised changes. Follow the veterinarian’s instructions and contact the clinic when concerns arise.
What if the caregiver becomes unavailable?
Agree on a backup contact and a safe handoff arrangement in advance. Confirm that the backup person has consented.
How often should I update the sheet?
Review it before each handoff and whenever contact details, access, food or veterinary instructions change.

